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Allowance and money skills by age

What kids can learn about money at each age, a few real-money jobs to try, and how families often handle allowance at that stage. Every child is different, so treat these as ideas rather than rules.

Ages 3 to 5

What they can learn

Money is swapped for things. Coins have different values. Sometimes we wait.

Try this

  • Count coins into a jar
  • Pay the cashier for one small item
  • Choose between two treats

Allowance

Many families don't start an allowance yet; let them hold and count real coins.

Ages 6 to 8

What they can learn

Saving for something takes time. Spent money is gone. Prices differ between stores.

Try this

  • Use save, spend and share jars
  • Save for a small goal over a few weeks
  • Compare two prices at the store

Allowance

A small weekly allowance; some families use a dollar for each year of age.

Ages 9 to 11

What they can learn

Budgets, trade-offs, interest and the difference between needs and wants.

Try this

  • Plan how to spend a set amount on a day out
  • Open a youth savings account
  • Track their own money in a notebook

Allowance

Let the allowance cover some of their own wants, like treats or game money.

Ages 12 to 14

What they can learn

Earning money, online spending, peer pressure and bigger saving goals.

Try this

  • Earn money from extra jobs or neighbors
  • Decide on their own purchases within a budget
  • Compare phone plans or prices online

Allowance

A larger allowance that covers more of their own costs, like snacks with friends.

Ages 15 to 18

What they can learn

Paychecks, taxes, debit cards, credit and saving for after high school.

Try this

  • Read a pay stub from a first job
  • Use a teen checking account with alerts
  • Budget for a car, phone or college costs

Allowance

Many families move from allowance to earnings, with a clothing or monthly budget.

Three things that matter more than the amount

  • Consistency: the same amount on the same day, so kids can plan.
  • Real choices: let them decide, and sometimes choose badly.
  • Talking about it: share how your family makes money decisions.

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